EG.T02-SA — End-of-Guide Self-Assessment: Spiritual Guidelines for Choosing and Becoming Marriage Material

Measuring My Growth

This assessment enables you to evaluate your current position after completing Spiritual Guidelines for Choosing and Becoming Marriage Material.

Where possible, compare your responses with those recorded in BG.T02-SA — Baseline Self-Assessment. Identify areas where growth has occurred and areas that still require attention.

Part A: Spiritual Alignment

1. How would you rate your current level of spiritual alignment with God?

☐ Very Strong

☐ Strong

☐ Moderate

☐ Weak

☐ Very Weak

2. To what extent do your decisions reflect biblical principles and values?

☐ To a Very Great Extent

☐ To a Great Extent

☐ To Some Extent

☐ To a Limited Extent

☐ To a Very Limited Extent

3. What aspect of spiritual alignment requires further growth?

4. What progress have you made in strengthening your spiritual alignment since beginning this Guide?

Part B: Purpose, Direction and Vision

5. How clear is your purpose, direction and vision?

☐ Very Clear

☐ Clear

☐ Moderately Clear

☐ Slightly Clear

☐ Not Clear

6. To what extent does your purpose, direction and vision influence your major decisions?

☐ To a Very Great Extent

☐ To a Great Extent

☐ To Some Extent

☐ To a Limited Extent

☐ To a Very Limited Extent

7. What aspect of your purpose, direction and vision requires greater clarity?

8. What progress have you made in clarifying your purpose, direction and vision since beginning this Guide?

Part C: Commitment

9. How would you rate your current understanding of commitment as a lifelong covenant responsibility?

☐ Very Strong

☐ Strong

☐ Moderate

☐ Weak

☐ Very Weak

10. How consistently do you honour responsibilities, obligations and commitments?

☐ Very Consistently

☐ Consistently

☐ Sometimes

☐ Rarely

☐ Very Rarely

11. What aspect of commitment requires further growth?

12. What progress have you made in strengthening your commitment since beginning this Guide?

Part D: Purity and Self-Control

13. How would you rate your current level of purity and self-control?

☐ Very Strong

☐ Strong

☐ Moderate

☐ Weak

☐ Very Weak

14. How effectively do you resist influences, situations or behaviours that undermine purity and self-control?

☐ Very Effectively

☐ Effectively

☐ Moderately Effectively

☐ Slightly Effectively

☐ Ineffectively

15. What aspect of purity and self-control requires further growth?

16. What progress have you made in strengthening your purity and self-control since beginning this Guide?

Part E: Boundaries

17. How confident are you in your ability to establish and maintain healthy boundaries?

☐ Very Confident

☐ Confident

☐ Moderately Confident

☐ Slightly Confident

☐ Not Confident

18. How consistently do you maintain healthy boundaries when they are tested?

☐ Very Consistently

☐ Consistently

☐ Sometimes

☐ Rarely

☐ Very Rarely

19. What aspect of boundaries requires further growth?

20. What progress have you made in strengthening your boundaries since beginning this Guide?

Part F: Looking Back

21. Which pillar has shown the greatest improvement since you began this Guide?

☐ Spiritual Alignment

☐ Purpose, Direction and Vision

☐ Commitment

☐ Purity and Self-Control

☐ Boundaries

22. What evidence demonstrates that improvement?

23. Which pillar requires your greatest attention going forward?

☐ Spiritual Alignment

☐ Purpose, Direction and Vision

☐ Commitment

☐ Purity and Self-Control

☐ Boundaries

24. What makes this pillar a continuing priority for growth?

25. What has been the most significant change in your life as a result of studying Spiritual Guidelines for Choosing and Becoming Marriage Material?

26. Since beginning this Guide, the area in which I have grown most is:

27. The pillar that requires my greatest attention going forward is:

28. Complete the statement below.

One lesson from this Guide that I am determined to apply consistently is:

29. Complete the statement below.

As a result of studying Spiritual Guidelines for Choosing and Becoming Marriage Material, I now have a better understanding of:

30. Complete the statement below.

The most important change I want to maintain is: