09.04.22 The 4th Practice for Developing Trustworthy Habits as You Wait Establish and Maintain Clear Standards of Trust

4. Establish and Maintain Clear Standards of Trust

During this season of waiting, take time to define what trust means to you and the people you relate with. Reflect on the behaviours that demonstrate honesty, transparency and reliability. Consider the situations that have caused you to trust or distrust others in the past and identify the patterns that shaped those experiences.

Write down the standards you believe are necessary for trust to grow in your relationship. Clarifying these standards helps you identify areas where your own conduct must improve while also preparing you to recognise trustworthy character in a future spouse when the time comes.