10.04.10 The 3rd Key for Evaluating a Prospective Partner’s Teamwork and Partnership Mindset

3. Are Plans and Decisions Discussed Jointly and Transparently?

Consider how the prospective partner handles decisions that affect both parties. Does the individual consult, discuss and present a unified direction; or does she or he decide independently and inform the other party afterward? In cases where discernment is required, does the person engage the other party openly; or does she or he proceed without shared understanding?

Priscilla and Aquila must have discovered that they were both comfortable with discussing their decisions jointly and transparently. Although the bible is silent and judging from their successful encounter with Apollos, the couple must have had various discussions on how to coach and mentor him and other church members at Corinth and Ephesus. (Acts 18:26).

Nelson's story highlights the pitfalls of independent decision-making. He rewrote and submitted the entire proposal alone, sending it directly to management without Juliet's knowledge. He then scheduled the client presentation without her input, demonstrating a complete lack of transparency and a preference for unilateral decision-making that led to negative consequences for everyone.

A prospective partner who values joint discussion and shared decision-making creates a strong foundation for partnership. They prioritise honesty, openness and consistent communication, especially when it comes to decisions that affect both of you. This approach fosters an environment where the two of you can feel valued and respected, preventing misunderstandings and building enduring trust.