10.03.13 The 6th Key for Evaluating a Prospective Partner’s Financial Readiness

6. Is Financial Information Shared Honestly and Without Secrecy?

Review how the prospective partner handles financial information. Does the person speak openly about financial decisions, obligations and responsibilities; or does she or he conceal details and avoid such discussions? When entrusted with financial authority, does the person operate with transparency and accountability; or does she or he lack openness and relevant reporting?

Asenath must have noticed Joseph’s transparency with regard to sharing financial information. Scripture records the way her husband managed Egypt’s resources under Pharaoh’s authority. The Ruler had entrusted Joseph with full administrative responsibility after discerning his wisdom and integrity (Genesis 41:39–40). Such trust would have required a high level of accountability, implementing an organised preservation plan without concealment, secrecy or hidden control.

Bernard's story highlights the destructive impact of financial secrecy. His hidden bills, unopened envelopes containing debt reminders and defensiveness about his finances, including withholding information about debts and using Martha’s name without her consent, signaled that he was not ready for financial partnership. His lack of transparency jeopardised Martha's professional reputation and ended up eroding the trust that she had for Bernard.

Financially-ready partners approach money-related conversations with openness and humility, recognising that financial decisions impact both of you. A prospective partner views financial conversations as opportunities for growth, learning and deepening the trust you have for each other. Communicating openly about finances demonstrates the person’s readiness to navigate challenges together, fostering a strong foundation for a lifelong partnership.