10.03.09 The 2nd Key for Evaluating a Prospective Partner’s Financial Readiness

2. Are Financial Decisions Driven by Values Rather than Image, Status or Pressure?

Examine how the prospective partner makes financial decisions. Does the person choose based on principle, responsibility and long-term stability or are decisions made to maintain appearance, status or seek approval from people?

Asenath could have discovered that Joseph’s financial decisions were driven by values rather than image, status or pressure. When Pharaoh appointed him over Egypt, Joseph’s authority and public visibility increased significantly. Scripture records that immediately after his elevation to the position of prime minister, he immediately embarked on implementing the preservation plan he had proposed for the coming famine, directing national resources towards the first phase of the project, which was on preparation (Genesis 41:33–36, 41–44). His priorities were not fueled by prestige or an arrogant desire for public display of his high-profile or personal status. The promotion status did not alter the principles guiding his stewardship.

Likewise, Joseph may have recognised that Asenath’s financial decisions were driven by values rather than social elevation or public appearance. Transition from private life into the household of Egypt’s prime minister could have easily triggered unplanned spending so as to match their elevated status. Instead, it is very likely that their household moved on tandem with the recommended financial discipline of restraint t as the national prepared for the upcoming famine, thence avoiding any undue status-driven expenditure (Genesis 41:45, 50–52).

Bernard’s prioritisation of expensive clothes upgraded gadgets and lavish dining over essential financial obligations revealed a lack of financial maturity. He focused on maintaining a 'posh' image as a successful influencer, leading him to neglect critical bills and incur debts, showing that his financial decisions were driven by image and status rather than sound values or long-term financial stability.

A financially-prepared prospective partner focuses on strengthening financial systems that support responsibilities, prioritising needs over wants. The person is not afraid to make sacrifices and adjustments in order to achieve financial stability; understanding that financial wisdom is seen in one’s priorities, consistency and the courage to say “no” when necessary.