04.03.T02-SA — Self-Assessment: Am I a Value-Adding Homemaker?

Assessing the Value I Add to My Home

This chapter teaches that a value-adding homemaker intentionally transforms a house into a home by understanding what family members value, creating comfort and belonging, practising hospitality, improving the environment, planning for the future and ensuring that family members and guests feel genuinely at home. The examples of Dayspring and the Shunammite woman demonstrate that value addition begins with vision, intentionality and a desire to serve others.

Use this assessment to evaluate how effectively you are applying the principles discussed in this chapter.

Scoring Guide

Part A: Creating a Home Rather Than Just Maintaining a House

The chapter teaches that a home is more than a building. It is a place of belonging, comfort, safety and peace.

1. My home feels warm, welcoming and peaceful.

Score: _____

2. Family members generally enjoy spending time at home.

Score: _____

3. I intentionally create an atmosphere of comfort and belonging.

Score: _____

4. Visitors feel welcomed when they enter our home.

Score: _____

5. I think beyond physical structures and focus on the emotional experience of home.

Score: _____

Part B: Understanding What Family Members Value

The chapter encourages homemakers to understand what family members value in a home environment.

6. I understand what makes each family member feel comfortable at home.

Score: _____

7. I regularly pay attention to changing family needs.

Score: _____

8. I involve family members when making important home-related decisions.

Score: _____

9. I intentionally create opportunities for family bonding.

Score: _____

10. I consider both individual and shared family needs.

Score: _____

Part C: Creating Peace, Comfort and Functionality

The chapter highlights peace, cleanliness, organisation, natural light, safety and relaxation.

11. My home is generally clean and organised.

Score: _____

12. I create spaces that promote relaxation and rest.

Score: _____

13. I minimise unnecessary clutter.

Score: _____

14. I pay attention to comfort, beauty and functionality.

Score: _____

15. My home environment supports family wellbeing.

Score: _____

Part D: Taking Stock and Improving

The chapter encourages women to honestly evaluate their homes and identify areas for improvement.

16. I regularly evaluate my home environment objectively.

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17. I identify areas that need improvement rather than ignoring them.

Score: _____

18. I take practical steps to improve my surroundings.

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19. I make the best use of the resources available to me.

Score: _____

20. I am proactive rather than reactive when addressing home-related issues.

Score: _____

Part E: Vision and Creativity

The chapter emphasises having a dream for one's home and researching ideas.

21. I have a clear vision for the kind of home I want to create.

Score: _____

22. I actively seek ideas that can improve my home.

Score: _____

23. I use creativity to enhance my environment.

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24. I look for low-cost ways of adding value.

Score: _____

25. I continue learning about homemaking and home improvement.

Score: _____

Part F: Making Family Members Feel at Home

The chapter repeatedly stresses helping family members feel comfortable in their own home.

26. Family members feel valued in our home.

Score: _____

27. I consider the unique preferences of family members.

Score: _____

28. I intentionally create a peaceful atmosphere.

Score: _____

29. I help family members feel secure and accepted.

Score: _____

30. I encourage a sense of belonging within the family.

Score: _____

Part G: Hospitality and Entertaining

The chapter uses Dayspring and the Shunammite woman to highlight hospitality.

31. I enjoy welcoming visitors into my home.

Score: _____

32. I prepare for guests rather than leaving everything to chance.

Score: _____

33. Guests generally feel comfortable in my home.

Score: _____

34. I view hospitality as a ministry rather than an obligation.

Score: _____

35. I am willing to inconvenience myself for the comfort of others when appropriate.

Score: _____

Part H: Readiness for Overnight Guests

The chapter provides detailed guidance on preparing for overnight visitors.

36. I could comfortably accommodate an unexpected overnight guest.

Score: _____

37. I pay attention to details that make visitors feel cared for.

Score: _____

38. I think about the practical needs of guests.

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39. I prepare spaces that communicate welcome and care.

Score: _____

40. I would be proud to host a respected visitor in my home today.

Score: _____

Part I: Stewardship and Resource Management

The chapter encourages improving what is already available rather than waiting for abundance.

41. I appreciate and manage what God has already entrusted to me.

Score: _____

42. I avoid unnecessary waste in the home.

Score: _____

43. I balance beauty with financial wisdom.

Score: _____

44. I make thoughtful decisions about home-related spending.

Score: _____

45. I look for ways to increase value without excessive expenditure.

Score: _____

Part J: Supporting Family Activities and Productivity

The chapter discusses creating spaces for family activities, study, prayer and working from home.

46. My home supports the important activities of family members.

Score: _____

47. I encourage productive use of space.

Score: _____

48. I support study, work, prayer and personal growth within the home.

Score: _____

49. I help minimise unnecessary distractions.

Score: _____

50. I intentionally create spaces that serve meaningful purposes.

Score: _____

Part K: Wisdom, Peace and Godliness

The chapter concludes by emphasising wisdom, peace and God's presence in the home.

51. I seek God's wisdom regarding my home and family.

Score: _____

52. I prioritise peace above appearances.

Score: _____

53. I recognise that God must be at the centre of the home.

Score: _____

54. My actions contribute to building rather than tearing down my house.

Score: _____

55. I intentionally cultivate a God-honouring home environment.

Score: _____

Scoring Summary

Part A Total: _____ / 25

Part B Total: _____ / 25

Part C Total: _____ / 25

Part D Total: _____ / 25

Part E Total: _____ / 25

Part F Total: _____ / 25

Part G Total: _____ / 25

Part H Total: _____ / 25

Part I Total: _____ / 25

Part J Total: _____ / 25

Part K Total: _____ / 25

Grand Total

Total Score: _____ / 275

Reflection on My Results

56. Which area received your highest score?

57. Which area received your lowest score?

58. Which aspect of the Shunammite woman's example do you most resemble?

☐ Hospitality

☐ Thoughtfulness

☐ Generosity

☐ Initiative

☐ Preparation

☐ Service

59. Which aspect of her example do you most need to develop?

60. Which feature of Dayspring most reflects the kind of home you desire to create?

61. If your family members completed this assessment about you, which three areas would likely receive the highest scores?

62. Which three areas would likely receive the lowest scores?

63. What one change would most increase the value you add to your home during the next twelve months?