08.04.12 The 6th Key for Evaluating a Prospective Partner's Readiness for Progress and Development

6. Does the Person Sacrifice Comfort tor Growth when Challenges Arise?

Observe how the prospective partner approaches challenges and opportunities for growth. Does the person prioritise short-term comfort and emotional ease; or does she or he choose discipline, sacrifice and sustained effort aimed at achieving long-term development?

Asenath must have noted Joseph's willingness to sacrifice comfort in order to fulfil responsibilities entrusted to him. After being elevated to a position of high authority, the man did not begin by taking a rest or basking in the status and prestige that came with his new position. His life had been a long haul so he surely needed a long holiday. But on the contrary, Joseph immediately travelled throughout the land of Egypt, organising preparations for the coming famine (Genesis 41:46, KJV).

Asenath must have noted Joseph’s willingness to sacrifice comfort in order to fulfil the responsibilities entrusted to him. After being elevated to a position of authority, the man did not begin by taking a rest or enjoying the status that came with it. Instead, he immediately began travelling throughout the land of Egypt, organising preparations for the coming famine (Genesis 41:46), committing himself to the demands of his assignment.

Joseph must have observed Asenath’s willingness to take on the demands of her role without seeking convenience. That high-ranking household coupled with bringing up their two sons placed continuous demands on her during that period, requiring her to maintain order and fulfil her responsibilities.

Brenda’s conduct was different. Her insistence on quick results and refusal to consider professional correction demonstrated a clear preference for comfort at the expense of progress. For instance, the girl dismissed Richard’s advice as ‘too expensive’ or ‘slow’ whenever her construction project required a more rigorous and demanding approach.

A partner who consistently chooses comfort overgrowth becomes difficult to build a future with, because progress requires discipline, sacrifice and perseverance. A development-oriented partner accepts the effort required for growth and remains committed to responsibilities even when circumstances become difficult.