Restored relationships often require more than a willingness to forgive. Certain attitudes and behaviours can either encourage reconciliation or make it significantly more difficult. This section examines common obstacles to restoration and highlights practical principles that support healing, reconciliation and stronger relationships.

CONTENTS IN THIS SECTION

Introduction

• Introducing 'It Takes Two to Tango'

Nine Behaviours that Make It Difficult for Others to Forgive You

1. The 1st Behaviour that Makes it Difficult for Others to Forgive You

2. The 2nd Behaviour that Makes it Difficult for Others to Forgive You

3. The 3rd Behaviour that Makes it Difficult for Others to Forgive You

4. The 4th Behaviour that Makes it Difficult for Others to Forgive You

5. The 5th Behaviour that Makes it Difficult for Others to Forgive You

6. The 6th Behaviour that Makes it Difficult for Others to Forgive You

7. The 7th Behaviour that Makes it Difficult for Others to Forgive You

8. The 8th Behaviour that Makes it Difficult for Others to Forgive You

9. The 9th Behaviour that Makes it Difficult for Others to Forgive You

Restoration: Birungi's Story Continues

1. Birungi Restored
2. Mwesigwa Returns from Hong Kong

Key Lessons

• Key Lessons in Reconciliation and Restoration

Reflection and Assessment

1. How to Use the Reconciliation and Restoration Reflection Scorecard
2. Reconciliation and Restoration Assessment Form
3. Reconciliation and Restoration Assessment Results
4. Reconciliation and Restoration Action Planning Worksheet